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The confessions of a Monger, AKA Sex Tourist. Welcome to SirMarjAlots blog.
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This blog is not just an explicit description of all my sex exploits around the fleshpots of the world – it is also a confession. Under no circumstances do I try to fabricate the truth or disguise anyone’s identity. It also details the perils and confusion caused by falling in love with a bar girl AKA hooker.
Nothing has been covered that will not be exposed. Whatever is secret will be made known – Luke 12:2
|Thailand, Bangkok, March, 2008
Having resigned from my job took some time out in Thailand and for my first few nights booked into the Honey House, soi 22. Met a lovely beer bar girl just round the corner in the Queens Plaza complex. It felt good to be back.
|After gorging on Thai girls, wanted something different. In Bangkok you can find girls of different ethnic origins within and outside the Grace hotel on soi 3.|
|Thailand, Pattaya, March, 2008
Made my way to Pattaya and it took me a few days to adjust. Was finding it hard to get laid, eventually took a girl from the Oasis Gogo on Soi Buakhao.
|Having adjusted to Pattaya went out one night and ended up in Secrets bar off of Walking street. Met a lovely girl in there and took her to the movies and then she stayed with me that night back at my hotel. A great night had. A lovely girl.|
|Plenty of quantity in Pattaya, but it can be hard to find quality, the girls are there but its all a matter of timing, being in the right place at the right time.
All the sponsors do not help the situation. Managed to find the kind of girl I like in Voodoo Agogo off of Walking street and she stayed with me long time.
|Bulgaria, Sofia, December, 2007
Did not want to spend Xmas at home so took a break to Sofia Bulgaria. Wanted to sample some of the men clubs there and a few Bulgarian beauties of course. Lots of clubs dotted around the city but only a few worth visiting.
|Thailand, Bangkok, September, 2007
After one years absence from Thailand returned to Bangkok. The first few nights met a couple of really cute girls in the Nana Plaza, soi 4, but would only come short time back to my hotel, the Manhattan.
|Malaysia, Kuala Lumpur, September, 2007
Had pre-booked an excursion to Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia for 3 nights staying in the centre of the action at the Concorde hotel. Hoping to meet some cute and curvy Malaysian Girls. Not so much luck, lots of hardcore hookers working the bars there is all I really saw.
|Thailand, Pattaya, September, 2007
Returned to Pattaya for the remainder of my vacation staying at the Flipper Lodge. Once you are in Pattaya it can be hard to leave even if you think you are not getting as much as you want. Met a lovely girl in Silver Star AGogo on soi 7 who I did take for a few long nights.
|Was walking around alot trying to find that elusive girl that ticks all my boxes. One night took a detour to the Buffalo Bar on Third road, Pattaya. Met a girl I liked and took her back to my hotel. Thought she might be hard work, but melted nicely and was good company.|
|Morocco, Marrakesh, June, 2007
Lots of mixed reports about this place. Managed to get a cheap long weekend there so thought Id take a look. Hoping to meet some Arabic and north African beauties. Did not quite work out like that. Some nice looking girls working the discos but they want a small fortune.How not to monger in Marrakesh
|Thailand, Bangkok, August, 2006
Arrived in Bangkok and was staying at the Nana. Very crowded and noisy around soi 4 so took a motorbike down to soi 22 and chilled out in the Pickle bar. Met two lovely ‘sisters’ there. Back at the Nana, they would not let me take them into my room. So back to soi 22 short time hotel and a great threesome. No threesome at the Nana.
|Singapore, August, 2006
Had itchy feet this trip and did not want to stay in Thailand. My excursion started with a budget flight down to Singapore and staying in the Geylang area. Lots of girls of different asian origins on the streets at night. Easy pickings but only short time.
|Indonesia, Batam, August, 2006
From Singapore took the ferry to Batam, Indonesia. A real contrast from Singapore. Spent a few nights around the Nayoga entertainment district, a bit quiet for me really, but some hot Indonesian girls dancing in its only Gogo Bananas.
|Philippines, Angeles City, September, 2006
From Singapore took a budget flight to Clark airbase, Angeles city in the Philippines. What a city, like a highly concentrated Pattaya. Lots of bars, lots of girls and I did not go without. On my last night met a lovely girl, who I wish I had met the first.
Journey to Angeles City
|Thailand, Pattaya, September, 2006
Returned to Thailand Pattaya for the remainder of my vacation, been around quite a bit on this trip. Usual Pattaya line up, and the heavens opened up and it rained and rained, some days was walking around with water up to my knees. The best girl I met this trip was from the Angel Witch Gogo off of Walking Street.
|Cuba, Varadero, April, 2006
Needed a change from Thailand and Asian girls. So took an all inclusive break to Varadero in Cuba. Once hallowed the ‘Bangkok of the Caribbean’. Not any more since tourist apartheid took hold. What with the police state and all, mongering in Cuba can be hard. But with some determination and perseverance one can get their hands on hot Latinos, blacks and Mulata.
|Cuba, Havana, April, 2008
Took a trip from Varadero for one night in Havana.
Fantastic city and the women are hot and available, although due to the police state it has to all be done hush hush. A great experience with Jennifer Lopez in the toilet.
|Bangkok, Pattaya, Thailand, December 2005
In love with my girlfriend again and she meets me at Bangkok airport. Spend a few days in Bangkok, where I explore Washington Square, soi 22 for the first time. We then spend the remainder in Pattaya. She leaves early and I break my foot! The last day she returns and we have a perfect day.
|Bangkok, Thailand, August 2005
Before arrival I was meant to be meeting up with my Thai girlfriend, but then she give me the brother killed in motorcycle crash story. I guess one of her other boyfriends was in town. After meeting two sisters did meet up with her again but only briefly. This was the first trip I planned an excursion and booked a flight to Phonh Penh in Cambodia.
|Phnom Penh, Cambodia, September 2005
Took a flight from Bangkok into Phnom Penh. Staying at the Flamingos. Very interesting place and lots of different girls available. The hostess bars had some real stunners in them. The girls in the Flamingos give very good service.
|Sihanoukaville, Cambodia, September 2005<
Took the bus down to the coast from Phnom Penh to Sihanoukaville. Great beaches and really laid back, the Happy Pizza will get you high. I was not over impressed with the mongering scene there though, at night it was a bit like a ghost town, but has great potential.
|Thailand, Pattaya, September, 2005
After a great trip to Cambodia it was nice to get back into the relative civilisation of monger hordes and bar-girls that is Pattaya. Spent my last few nights in Bangkok love sick. Wanted to spend this time with my Thai girlfriend, but she was having none of it.
|USA, Philadelphia, Atlantic City, July, 2005
Sent to Philadelphia to work. Well those American girls were getting me hot in my pants. A great day out by the seaside in Atlantic city and a good session with a girl I rang in the local paper.
An Englishman in Philadelphia
|Varna, Bulgaria, June, 2005
A long weekend with a good friend in the Black sea resort of Varna and Golden Sands. Hoping to bag some Bulgarian beauties. Party street in Golden Sands was where it was at. What influenced this trip was meeting some beautiful gypsy girls in Prague the year before who were from Bulgaria.
|Nairobi, Mombasa, Kenya, February 2005
My first visit to the African continent. Always been keen on black girls. Went with a good friend and his sons. Intended to do some covert mongering. Spent one night in Nairobi, Florida disco and the remaining time in Mombasa. Would love to go back sometime, but so many more places to go.
|Bangkok, Pattaya, Thailand, November 2004
Had cancelled the visa process and sponsorship of my Thai love. Returned on my own for some Bangkok mongering. But could not resist meeting up with her again – Bangkok Love story 5. Took her too Pattaya for a few days where she made an effort to be more honest with me. On this trip started to get a taste for threesomes, not including Sha.
|Czechoslovakia, Prague, September, 2004
Took my first trip to an former Soviet block eastern European county. Prague is very established now as a sex city and the prices and scams can reflect this. All very commercial, when they first went democratic was meant to be the best time for mongering. Some beautiful gypsy girls plying their trade in the city centre.
|Bangkok, Phuket, Pattaya, Thailand, May 2004.
Between this trip and the last trip I had become a sponsor for my girl. So that she could leave the bar. This trip I would start the Visa process and included a visit to Phuket where jealously and distrust would take hold again. The sun was setting on this love affair.
Bangkok Love story 4
|Spain, Barcelona, March, 2004
A stag weekend in Barcelona took a surprising turn when returning in the early hours of the morning from a nightclub to our hostel to be confronted by lots of Nigerian street hookers on Las Ramblas, some very hot and some robbers amongst them too. A few missing wallets in the morning.
|USA, Philadephia, New York, January, 2004
First trip to the USA, a work trip. Fascinated by the buildings, took a day out over the weekend to New York to see the sights, including the whores on 7th avenue. I do declare, there were times I was so lonesome I took some comfort there.
An Englishman in New York
|Bangkok, Koh Sumui, Thailand, November 2003
I quickly return to Thailand to be exclusively with Sha, the Thai girl I had fallen in love with on my first trip and then found her again on my third trip. Included a romantic trip to Koh Sumui. Already suspicion was setting in.Bangkok Love story 3
|Bangkok, Pattaya, Thailand, September 2003.
Mongering in Bangkok and Pattaya. After losing contact with the girl I had met on the second trip I return to Thailand on my own, the real intention to meet the girl I had met on the first trip
Bangkok Love story 2.
|Bangkok, Jomtien, Thailand, March 2003
It had all been to much for my friend who had remained in Thailand and married a bar-girl. He gave me the contact of a girl that he thought I was more suited to. We kept in contact over the internet and eventually I made a trip to meet her in person. This trip included being taken to the family village.
The girlfriend experience GFE.
|Bangkok, Thailand, October 2002.
My first trip to Thailand Bangkok. A fantasy world turned into reality. The first trip is the greatest and for most, the first of many more to come.
One night in Bangkok.Falling in love with a bar girl was not meant to happen. After 3 consecutive hedonistic nights, I was feeling impoverished and in need of something more meaningful. Tonight I would meet a special girl and break all my rules.
Bangkok Love Story
|Goa, India, March 2002.
My first trip to Asia. When the mongering mind-set first began to set in. It was this trip when I first discovered sex travel forums like the World Sex Guide(WSG). Goa has great beaches, nice people but is no longer a sex destination. Shame, some of those Indian babes are hot. Getting stoned is not a problem though.
Goa Going Gone.
A little about me, My fist mongering trip was with a bunch of friends to Amsterdam in 1985. This was the first time I went with a prostitute and paid for sex, Taboo!
I then mongered at home, visiting prostitutes quite frequently in cities like London and Brighton. As a tourist around the Mediterranean, I really began to get a taste for it and had some good nights in places like Benidorm. It really took off when I
first began to visit the third world. This is when tourism really turned into sex tourism.
Why do we do it? I could not pretend to have an answer for that, there are many reasons, biological, social, physocological and definitely economical. For now lets leave judgement for judgement day and let god be our witness, whatever you conceive ‘god’ to be.
“He that is without sin among you, let him cast the first stone at her.”
Do I have any regrets? yes some, do I feel ashamed or guilt?, yes a little, after all like the girls I am a human being with all its inherent weaknesses. Do I dwell on these negative feelings for a long time and get depressed and then go and seek the help of a doctor? Never! I go on another trip and so the cycle continues until my princess comes along…